Showing posts from May, 2021

How We Fight Our Battles Matters

As a person in the profession of counseling, I can tell you that I came to it from my brokenness. As I have grown through the years, I have sorted the helpful from the unhelpful advice people have freely, and for profit, given to me. I have come from a place of innocence through ignorance to insight, understanding, knowledge, and awareness.  I am moving to enlightenment, wisdom, and illumination.  I am a life long teacher and learner. I was born a warrior. That is a good thing, because I have fought hard for myself. I was recovering from physical, sexual, emotional, and religious abuse. I was gaslighted into thinking my loved ones were only doing what was best for me.  I was brainwashed by religion to the point where I completely lost myself in the process. Racism and bigotry colored many of my thoughts, words, and actions through my unconscious mind. I honestly could not help myself.  I was a perpetual victim, always and innocent victim of u

Self Enquiry, The Empowering Practice

Self Enquiry is THE empowering practice. If you do not know yourself, you can not know how your unconscious mind sabotages you. This practice invites you to mediate yourself, manage your emotional and sensory impulses and take responsibility for yourself. It is as old as time.  First practiced 3000 years ago by wise people, you need no equipment or special place to practice.   Marie Louise Bosin is inviting you to a one hour Zoom meeting with her. Topic: Wellness through Self-Enquiry Time: Any time you choose.  Call or email for to schedule an appointment time. $10 per person for the hour.

The Dark Triad

 If you are in a relationships now and you are experiencing abuse of any kind, think twice about the relationship. There is a phenomenon that is called the Dark Triad. Narcissism:  selfishness, involving a sense of entitlement, a lack of empathy, and a need for admiration Psychopathy : a personality disorder characterized by persistent antisocial behavior, impaired empathy and remorse, and bold, disinhibited, and egotistical traits. Machiavellianism : a personality trait which sees a person so focused on their own interests they will manipulate, deceive, and exploit others to achieve their goals. (wikipedia) If you want to sort out how safe you are in a relationship with a person who has similar traits as this, consider Psychotherapy for YOURSELF. Patients with these traits are not easily treated or cured.


As far as we can tell, Homo Sapiens have been roaming the earth since 300,000 BC. The earliest Homo Sapiens, Archaic Homo Sapiens, are found in archeological digs in Africa along the east coast. “What does the name Homo sapiens mean? The name we selected for ourselves means ‘wise human’. Homo is the Latin word for ‘human’ or ‘man’ and sapiens is derived from a Latin word that means ‘wise’ or ‘astute’.” Homo sapiens - modern humans All people living today belong to the species Homo sapiens. We evolved only relatively recently but with complex… The transition to Modern Homo Sapiens occurred around 150,000 BC. This transition happened all around the world because of migration. Migration and adaptability are the two key survival strategies of “MAN” from 300,000 BC. What happened on Earth is scientifically described as a rapidly changing environment with water-based life forms being the first organic being on Earth. This is an ancient Samkhya painting that shows t

Wellness through Radical Self-Enquiry

Self-enquiry is not a skill usually taught to children. Some parents care enough about their children to teach them how to do this. They ask questions which lead with curiosity, questions which wonder about what  the child is experiencing on the inside. Self-enquiry is the quickest way to emotional regulation, managing negative self-talk, and managing sensory stimulation. The key is when activated by anything, pleasurable or painful. Self-enquiry is discussed by Denver Frederick, Host of "Business of Giving" in an interview with Jerry Colona, Author. "When those of us hold power, either by dint of the meat bag that we occupy, or by the role that we have in society, when we allow those unconscious forces to stay in the unconscious, we are much more likely to do damage in the organizations, in our communities, in our society." Denver Fred